Playing with Boobs
They may be huge udders or they may be bite sized little morsels. They may sag or sit upright. They come in many varieties and can change over time. They are supposed to match perfectly- but in the real world, without surgery- they are normally slightly irregular…Regardless of the wide array of available shapes and sizes- one thing is sure. All of us women have them. Breasts- titties- hooters…whatever you want to call them. They come in pairs and believe it or not, they are attached to the clitoris with an invisible string. But all too often, men ignore them or mishandle them during sex, instead choosing to focus all the attention down low…What a lost opportunity to drive a woman out of her mind…
In light of the crucial role these twins play in sexual pleasure for most women, I decided to provide some instruction on the appropriate manipulation of titties in enhancing female pleasure. As usual- here is my Copulation College disclaimer- This is what works for me. All women are different, but you may pick up some useful tips. These suggestions may serve as new information to some, reminders to others, or confirmation that you are already doing the right thing…
1. First guys, I know you are naturally drawn to the pussy. But it will be there. Don’t automatically rush to the panties. Take the time to remove my bra and caress my breasts which are very sensitive. If you are the man, you should know how to release the clasp without bumbling around. That is a highschool skill. Starting with the boobies will start getting the kitty nice and wet for you by the time you get down there with your fingers or your mouth. The twins serve as a forecast, letting you know my level of arousal because the nipples get harder as we ladies get aroused.
2.While playing with my breasts. Take this opportunity to whisper sweet nothings in my ear about what you are getting ready to do me or all kinds of other nasty talk. Other options include kissing and sucking on my neck or kissing me passionately.
3.Fair and Balance- Remember what you do to one titty- you must do to the other. It really feels good when a man plays with both at the same time.
3. Start out gently when pinching, rolling the nipples, but gradually increase in intensity as I get more turned on. Sometimes I know the man is trying to be gentle, but if you handle my boobs too softly, it doesn’t really do anything for me. Slowly increase pressure and just watch the female reaction to let you know if its hurting. A little pain/pleasure is always nice, but do not be rough and don’t do things suddenly. If you are not sure, you could always whisper in my ear, and ask me how I like what you are doing to me or if I want it harder or softer.
3.When pinching the nipple have a complete grip of the whole nipple from the base and apply consistent pressure. You can also pull slowly. Not rough tugs. If you are rolling the nipple around use less pressure and vary the speed super slow, then quickly. Tongue kiss in rhythm to the breast play. You will take her breathe away.
4. Massage the whole breast. Not just the nipples. Use a variety of touches. Soft, light stroking to firm gripping. Maybe gentle pinches on the fleshy portions.
5.Use your mouth and tongue. Suck the nipples strongly. Open your mouth wide and suck the nipples and areola as well. Use your tongue like the nipple is a clit. Don’t slobber.Yuck! Don’t use teeth at all, especially on the nipple. The nice thing about nipples is that, unlike the clit which gets too sensitive after an orgasm, you can suck and play with them for an almost unlimited amount of time. So take your time, baby. Enjoy them.Hold my hands behind my back as you ravish my breasts.
6.Suck other parts of the breast like you want to put a hickey on it. By now the kitty is super wet. I might be just aching for you to touch my clit now. Start using the fingers in the kitty. I might come right away.
7.During sex, don’t forget to come back to the boobs when your hands are free. Doggystyle is perfect for this or if I am riding. Or maybe while I’m sucking your dick.
8.Toys/Sensations- I like sex toys and I’ve seen a whole lot of them specially made for boobs and want to try a few in the future. So far I have experienced nipple clamps in a D/s scene and really liked them, but they do hurt alittle, so this is probably not for everyone. Also try using ice or something ultra soft and tickly.
9.Titty fucking- unfortunately, since I’m a perky 34A cup, I don’t have quite enough cleavage for this freaky fantasy, but maybe when I grow up (grow bigger, that is) we can go there. I have had a man cum all over my boobs and that was fun. And I did have a man spell his name on my boobs with his big black dick while he knelt astride my chest. Lol. All these years later and I still remember how to spell that shit. Very erotic.
Those are all the tips I can think of now. Try them all or try a couple. Either way. Just don’t forget about the breasts when you are doing the do and watch the woman for signals for what she likes and doesn’t like. Don’t be so single minded about getting to the clit. Work your way south and take your time to arouse all parts of a woman’s body to enhance the entire sexual experience.
Anyone who wants to add additional tips or strategies is welcome to post.
Class Dismissed.
Thank you, Thank you, Thank you! Especially for #3, #3 & #3. I’m all about the boobies and my man has a tendancy to forget about them. It’s a shame too…
Comment by Frances — January 3, 2006 @ 2:37 am
oops- I don’t know what was up with my numbering…lol!
Comment by diaryofaclosetfreak — January 3, 2006 @ 4:19 am
You only got better in your absence. This is cool and true, true, true. When you said hold her arms behind her while you work on her boobs, I got wet, but we all know how easy I am.
Thanks, baby, for enlightening the male population, one reader at a time. Boys, pass this primer on, it will work to your advantage.
Comment by T in NYC — January 3, 2006 @ 1:34 pm
damn…nice post.
My first time here…I like the name!
Hmm, looks like I have some reading to do.
Comment by Closet Owner — January 3, 2006 @ 6:02 pm
VERY GENTLY MASSAGING AN CARESSING THEM LICKING EACH NIPPLE TILL ITS ERECT MOVNG TO THE NEXT WHEW LET ME QUIT WOW
Comment by enoch s — January 3, 2006 @ 9:34 pm
“7.During sex, don’t forget to come back to the boobs when your hands are free. Doggystyle is perfect for this or if I am riding. Or maybe while I’m sucking your dick.” I agree with you 100 percent.
Comment by Miss K — January 4, 2006 @ 2:04 am
Good post.
I like where your head’s at! ;o)
Comment by Serial_MuthaFuckin_Dater — January 4, 2006 @ 4:09 pm
On the teeth thing. I’ve found if you are very careful and use your bottom lip and your top teeth to gently nibble on a nipple, most women love it. (but don’t start there…)
Comment by The Seeker — January 4, 2006 @ 4:48 pm
OK - I’m am photocopy that and have all men sign and agree to it before thay can ride this ride. - LOL
Seriously- that was an excellent post
The Mad Dater,
“Because there’s a Bastard in all of us”
Comment by The Mad Dater — January 5, 2006 @ 1:17 pm
Interesting. Sound like a lady after my own heart. I’m a very oral male with sexy and sensual female. My motto is, “Let me lick you up and down till you say stop.
Keith
678-698-7535(Cell)
Comment by Keith — January 10, 2006 @ 11:42 pm
Fo sho, u sound like u could be me except when it comes to tha teeth.
Wit dese 38DDD’s, I want him to start out biting ever so gently as he is building
up the sucking pressure on the ever-hardening nipple. As I get more and more
aroused, then bite them harder and harder! Grip it with your teeth and pull up
on ‘em. By this time you gotta be talkin shit and smackin my ass too–but BOYS,
leave all this to the MAN who knows what he’s doing!!!
Comment by mountingurl — January 16, 2006 @ 4:39 pm
I love giving breasts LOTS of attention. I’ve been told by a couple girls that i was the first to give them a breast orgasm. I’m the kinda guy who likes to fondle them and caress them, lick them, nibble, suck and pinck (gently). It can even be in a non sexual way as well. I know theres times for women when they get sore. I’m more than happy to give them a nice gentle massage while cuddling on the couch watching tv. I think i’ve even fallen asleep with a nipple in my mouth. Personally I lean towards smaller ones. We all have diff things that grab our attention more than others.
P.S. Breasts is a women’s problem. Just as penis size is a guys prob. Women need to stop identifying small with bad. Guys are generally happy that you got em…no matter the size. Check my post on this one from a while back my opinion about the breast size thing
Comment by vagueBoy — February 16, 2006 @ 5:21 am
shush don’t tell all the secerets cuz that kinda thing is what seperates the men from the boy’s in the bedroom lol.my wife can be completly mad at me but if i can manage a lil tittie play.mad allgone lovin is on;)
Comment by largecar — September 26, 2007 @ 4:27 am
plz inform how to squeeze boobs in kitchen
Comment by rajat agrawal — February 24, 2009 @ 7:02 am