Comments on: Kirk Pornlin http://diaryofaclosetfreak.blogsome.com/2005/12/05/kirk-pornlin/ THE PROLIFIC WRITINGS OF A BLACK, BEAUTIFUL, LUSTY, SEXY AND SMART 30-SOMETHING WOMAN WITH ALOT TO SAY ABOUT SEX, RELATIONSHIPS, LOVE AND EVERYTHING ELSE THAT MAKES LIFE INTERESTING. Sat, 05 Dec 2009 09:41:48 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=1.5.1-alpha by: Lola Gets http://diaryofaclosetfreak.blogsome.com/2005/12/05/kirk-pornlin/#comment-382 Sun, 03 Dec 2006 23:33:09 +0000 http://diaryofaclosetfreak.blogsome.com/2005/12/05/kirk-pornlin/#comment-382 I think the reason wifey was so upset about Kirk looking at "the porn" is cause he wasnt looking at hetero stuff, but homo. Men on men. Stag parties. You get where Im coming from, lol. Have you seen the pics from their vow renewal? Most of the men in that bridal party were MSMs - Men who have Sex with Men. I think the reason wifey was so upset about Kirk looking at “the porn” is cause he wasnt looking at hetero stuff, but homo. Men on men. Stag parties. You get where Im coming from, lol. Have you seen the pics from their vow renewal? Most of the men in that bridal party were MSMs - Men who have Sex with Men.

]]> by: sumisse http://diaryofaclosetfreak.blogsome.com/2005/12/05/kirk-pornlin/#comment-193 Sun, 08 Jan 2006 09:27:02 +0000 http://diaryofaclosetfreak.blogsome.com/2005/12/05/kirk-pornlin/#comment-193 Anything in excess can be bad for you. Having said that though...I feel that there is this culture of shame regarding sexuality especially in conservative religious circles/churches/households/individuals whatever. I dont know the long term affects of porn watched by a "functioning" individual meaning one who can still make it to work and pay rent lol, but I do know that a lot of people are still very judgemental about pornography/erotica and for some people it is something that they can't share with their partners and the orginial blog speaks to that. Anything in excess can be bad for you. Having said that though…I feel that there is this culture of shame regarding sexuality especially in conservative religious circles/churches/households/individuals whatever. I dont know the long term affects of porn watched by a “functioning” individual meaning one who can still make it to work and pay rent lol, but I do know that a lot of people are still very judgemental about pornography/erotica and for some people it is something that they can’t share with their partners and the orginial blog speaks to that.

]]> by: kiki http://diaryofaclosetfreak.blogsome.com/2005/12/05/kirk-pornlin/#comment-174 Sun, 01 Jan 2006 10:58:38 +0000 http://diaryofaclosetfreak.blogsome.com/2005/12/05/kirk-pornlin/#comment-174 I love your blog. Hope you have a great New Year.... I love your blog. Hope you have a great New Year….

]]> by: aphrodite http://diaryofaclosetfreak.blogsome.com/2005/12/05/kirk-pornlin/#comment-164 Fri, 30 Dec 2005 01:59:49 +0000 http://diaryofaclosetfreak.blogsome.com/2005/12/05/kirk-pornlin/#comment-164 Master and i are the people that the commercial advertisements talk about. We look at porn DAILY..some days all day long as we work and talk and do what we need to do. People have unprotected sex without ever looking at porn. Master and i are the people that the commercial advertisements talk about. We look at porn DAILY..some days all day long as we work and talk and do what we need to do. People have unprotected sex without ever looking at porn.

]]> by: adorhym http://diaryofaclosetfreak.blogsome.com/2005/12/05/kirk-pornlin/#comment-140 Sun, 25 Dec 2005 18:29:35 +0000 http://diaryofaclosetfreak.blogsome.com/2005/12/05/kirk-pornlin/#comment-140 I saw the show, and the man you speak of didnt simply have a "vice".. He has an ADDICTION! Theres a HUGE difference people!Furthermore, to place blame on his wife for not being "openminded' enough, is like blaming the partner of a raging alcoholic for his drinking..ie>if she wasnt such a bitch, maybe he wouldnt drink so much.Although i can appreciate the views of another, i must admit this one had me passionately angered.Let me explain that i speak from personal experience with this "porn addiction".People who are not addicted to porn dont crawl into dumpsters to retrieve porn video's.. but.. people who are ADDICTED do!.This is not about having a partner or wife who doesnt understand the sexual desires of her man, or is sexually cold.Let me say, that what began as a pleasurable experience for my Ex husband and i, (we enjoyed it together often)grew into and OBSESSION and COMPULSION for him,(the evil twins in every addiction) that ripped through our marriage like the ugliest of beasts.I dont think theres a person on left on this planet who has not been effected by addiction, wether it be your own, or that of a friend or loved one.Just as a person with an addiction to a drug, will eventually stop at NOTHING to get a fix, so will people with a sexual addiction. It has the ability to KILL.It kills friendships, partnerships and marriages, jobs, responsibility and sensibility, and unfortunately PEOPLE.you may thinking "dumpster diggin " for porn a bit off the hook,.. but it gets worse.People having unsafe, unprotected ,unlimitted sexual encounters, trying to get their "fix"..only to bring home the final fix..(AIDS) to their unsuspecting partners and even to their unborn children.I think perhaps ya missed the point this gentleman was trying to make,and im glad he has an understanding and commited wife who will stick with him on his journey into wellness.After 21 years of marriage, it was a burden i could no longer bare. I saw the show, and the man you speak of didnt simply have a “vice”.. He has an ADDICTION! Theres a HUGE difference people!Furthermore, to place blame on his wife for not being “openminded’ enough, is like blaming the partner of a raging alcoholic for his drinking..ie>if she wasnt such a bitch, maybe he wouldnt drink so much.Although i can appreciate the views of another, i must admit this one had me passionately angered.Let me explain that i speak from personal experience with this “porn addiction”.People who are not addicted to porn dont crawl into dumpsters to retrieve porn video’s.. but.. people who are ADDICTED do!.This is not about having a partner or wife who doesnt understand the sexual desires of her man, or is sexually cold.Let me say, that what began as a pleasurable experience for my Ex husband and i, (we enjoyed it together often)grew into and OBSESSION and COMPULSION for him,(the evil twins in every addiction) that ripped through our marriage like the ugliest of beasts.I dont think theres a person on left on this planet who has not been effected by addiction, wether it be your own, or that of a friend or loved one.Just as a person with an addiction to a drug, will eventually stop at NOTHING to get a fix, so will people with a sexual addiction. It has the ability to KILL.It kills friendships, partnerships and marriages, jobs, responsibility and sensibility, and unfortunately PEOPLE.you may thinking “dumpster diggin ” for porn a bit off the hook,.. but it gets worse.People having unsafe, unprotected ,unlimitted sexual encounters, trying to get their “fix”..only to bring home the final fix..(AIDS) to their unsuspecting partners and even to their unborn children.I think perhaps ya missed the point this gentleman was trying to make,and im glad he has an understanding and commited wife who will stick with him on his journey into wellness.After 21 years of marriage, it was a burden i could no longer bare.

]]> by: The Seeker http://diaryofaclosetfreak.blogsome.com/2005/12/05/kirk-pornlin/#comment-139 Thu, 22 Dec 2005 16:20:39 +0000 http://diaryofaclosetfreak.blogsome.com/2005/12/05/kirk-pornlin/#comment-139 Well said. *Joins in the round of applause.* Well said. *Joins in the round of applause.*

]]> by: T in NYC http://diaryofaclosetfreak.blogsome.com/2005/12/05/kirk-pornlin/#comment-109 Fri, 16 Dec 2005 02:24:01 +0000 http://diaryofaclosetfreak.blogsome.com/2005/12/05/kirk-pornlin/#comment-109 I miss you, ClosetFreak, where did you go? I miss you, ClosetFreak, where did you go?

]]> by: 'Round Midnight http://diaryofaclosetfreak.blogsome.com/2005/12/05/kirk-pornlin/#comment-99 Wed, 14 Dec 2005 11:59:40 +0000 http://diaryofaclosetfreak.blogsome.com/2005/12/05/kirk-pornlin/#comment-99 Hell yeah I watch some flicks...in fact as you know, I regularly (at least I try to) post some of my favorites on my blog. I just posted 2--scenes with Cherokee and Lexi. And once I discovered torrent files, it was ALL over....LOL. Agree with the sex toys too...it adds some spice. I love having them used on me and I love using them on my woman. Hell yeah I watch some flicks…in fact as you know, I regularly (at least I try to) post some of my favorites on my blog. I just posted 2–scenes with Cherokee and Lexi. And once I discovered torrent files, it was ALL over….LOL.

Agree with the sex toys too…it adds some spice. I love having them used on me and I love using them on my woman.

]]> by: Zeezy4Sheezy http://diaryofaclosetfreak.blogsome.com/2005/12/05/kirk-pornlin/#comment-94 Tue, 13 Dec 2005 15:46:19 +0000 http://diaryofaclosetfreak.blogsome.com/2005/12/05/kirk-pornlin/#comment-94 To be honest with you I don't think I could even date someone who wasn't into watching flicks like me. I think it makes sex that much kinkier while trying to acting out certain scenes To be honest with you I don’t think I could even date someone who wasn’t into watching flicks
like me. I think it makes sex that much kinkier while trying to acting out certain scenes

]]> by: Strange http://diaryofaclosetfreak.blogsome.com/2005/12/05/kirk-pornlin/#comment-85 Tue, 06 Dec 2005 02:23:02 +0000 http://diaryofaclosetfreak.blogsome.com/2005/12/05/kirk-pornlin/#comment-85 Clapping my hand. I find few women share the opinion about "their man" and porn. I missed that show but seen enough of them where she has women on that feel that looks at porn he's cheating on them. Porn is safe sex. When is to much? When it takes too much money from the family. Too much is when you can't have sex without it. Porn wasn't Kirk's problem lack of honesty was! Should have been in the begining of the relationship. If you like porn and the spouse don't you ain't a match! Strange Clapping my hand. I find few women share the opinion about “their man” and porn. I missed that show but seen enough of them
where she has women on that feel that looks at porn he’s cheating on them.

Porn is safe sex. When is to much? When it takes too much money from the family. Too much is when you can’t have sex without it.

Porn wasn’t Kirk’s problem lack of honesty was! Should have been in the begining of the relationship. If you like porn and the spouse don’t you ain’t a match!

Strange

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