Comments on: Kissing Frogs http://diaryofaclosetfreak.blogsome.com/2005/11/09/kissing-frogs/ THE PROLIFIC WRITINGS OF A BLACK, BEAUTIFUL, LUSTY, SEXY AND SMART 30-SOMETHING WOMAN WITH ALOT TO SAY ABOUT SEX, RELATIONSHIPS, LOVE AND EVERYTHING ELSE THAT MAKES LIFE INTERESTING. Sat, 05 Dec 2009 09:41:38 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=1.5.1-alpha by: Mr. Mizrahi -in ATL http://diaryofaclosetfreak.blogsome.com/2005/11/09/kissing-frogs/#comment-121 Sat, 17 Dec 2005 19:25:16 +0000 http://diaryofaclosetfreak.blogsome.com/2005/11/09/kissing-frogs/#comment-121 Oh damn...Ya'll 'bout to get me started up in heya! LOL I gotta comment on this one. I'm tired of these women with all these standards. And I especially have to rep for my fellow short--pardon me "vertically challenged" brothas. I'm not trying to toot my own horn (ok maybe I am....LOL) I'm a successful, attractive brotha who has it going on for himself. 30..NO CHILDREN..nice home...nice vehicle...college grad & gainfully employed. I drink & smoke (black & milds) socially. I dress to kill and I'm always on point. I have a fetish for finely hand-crafted Italian-silk Ties, French collar/cuff shirts & cuff-links that bling. I'm a versatile brotha who can CONVERSE in perfect Queen's English about the latest issue of "The Journal" or kick it with my bruhs and talk about how fly Toni Braxton looked in VIBE *shameless plug* LOL My only shortcoming (pun intended) is my height (5'7"). I cannot help the fact that both of my grandmothers who are 4'11 have more dominant genes than both of my grandfathers who were over 6ft. And it's funny because that's all I hear and see... Sistas who want a brother 6' and over. But there was one sista who gave a brotha a chance. I used to date a Full-Figured Model who is 6ft/190. I remember walking into TGI Friday's on crowded Friday Evening for Dinner/Drinks and silencing the crowd. Brothas....AND sistas were hatin' on me. Now I don't have a problem with this if the sista is say 5'9 and up. But I can't stand a woman who's like 5'2 talking about she wants the Jolly Green Giant. One of my good friends who played ball for my Alma Mater (Temple) and had a short stint in the NBA is 6'11. This dudes girl is like shorter than me. Do you know how funny they look? I mean I guess that's acceptable and I know we all want what we want because I'm guilty of it too (I'll look right past you if you're skinny or too light-complected...LOL) But damn give a brotha a chance. And believe me... I will be more than glad to dispell the "myth" about short men. I'll give a brotha 6' and over a run for his $$ anyday! LOL CF sorry for taking ova ya blog for a minute... But I needed to be heard. We now return to our regulary scheduled program already in progess....LOL Oh damn…Ya’ll ’bout to get me started up in heya! LOL I gotta comment on this one. I’m tired of these women with all these standards. And I especially have to rep for my fellow short–pardon me “vertically challenged” brothas. I’m not trying to toot my own horn (ok maybe I am….LOL) I’m a successful, attractive brotha who has it going on for himself. 30..NO CHILDREN..nice home…nice vehicle…college grad & gainfully employed. I drink & smoke (black & milds) socially. I dress to kill and I’m always on point. I have a fetish for finely hand-crafted Italian-silk Ties, French collar/cuff shirts & cuff-links that bling. I’m a versatile brotha who can CONVERSE in perfect Queen’s English about the latest issue of “The Journal” or kick it with my bruhs and talk about how fly Toni Braxton looked in VIBE *shameless plug* LOL My only shortcoming (pun intended) is my height (5′7″). I cannot help the fact that both of my grandmothers who are 4′11 have more dominant genes than both of my grandfathers who were over 6ft. And it’s funny because that’s all I hear and see… Sistas who want a brother 6′ and over. But there was one sista who gave a brotha a chance. I used to date a Full-Figured Model who is 6ft/190. I remember walking into TGI Friday’s on crowded Friday Evening for Dinner/Drinks and silencing the crowd. Brothas….AND sistas were hatin’ on me. Now I don’t have a problem with this if the sista is say 5′9 and up. But I can’t stand a woman who’s like 5′2 talking about she wants the Jolly Green Giant. One of my good friends who played ball for my Alma Mater (Temple) and had a short stint in the NBA is 6′11. This dudes girl is like shorter than me. Do you know how funny they look? I mean I guess that’s acceptable and I know we all want what we want because I’m guilty of it too (I’ll look right past you if you’re skinny or too light-complected…LOL) But damn give a brotha a chance. And believe me… I will be more than glad to dispell the “myth” about short men. I’ll give a brotha 6′ and over a run for his $$ anyday! LOL CF sorry for taking ova ya blog for a minute… But I needed to be heard. We now return to our regulary scheduled program already in progess….LOL

]]> by: Gregg http://diaryofaclosetfreak.blogsome.com/2005/11/09/kissing-frogs/#comment-60 Wed, 16 Nov 2005 17:44:08 +0000 http://diaryofaclosetfreak.blogsome.com/2005/11/09/kissing-frogs/#comment-60 I know I am just reiterating your posting, but I thought I would share my theory on dating. Out there in the world is your soul mate. You aren't going to find them by narrowing the dating field to a few. The more you sample the better your chances of finding the right one. I call it Gregg's dating theory of large numbers. I actually don't believe in the idea of a single soul mate. There are lots of perfect matches for each person. Finding one of them still requires kissing a lot of frogs. I found mine that way. I know I am just reiterating your posting, but I thought I would share my theory on dating. Out there in the world is your soul mate. You aren’t going to find them by narrowing the dating field to a few. The more you sample the better your chances of finding the right one. I call it Gregg’s dating theory of large numbers.

I actually don’t believe in the idea of a single soul mate. There are lots of perfect matches for each person. Finding one of them still requires kissing a lot of frogs. I found mine that way.

]]> by: 4eva http://diaryofaclosetfreak.blogsome.com/2005/11/09/kissing-frogs/#comment-56 Tue, 15 Nov 2005 22:24:21 +0000 http://diaryofaclosetfreak.blogsome.com/2005/11/09/kissing-frogs/#comment-56 Very wise blog. People need to learn to open themselves up to possibilities. You do that and now you have more options and a better chance of finding what you really want. Most people havent taken enough time to figure out who they are in order to truly know what they are looking for out of a relationship anyway. Meet people and get to know them with no expectations and you never know what you may get out of it. Maybe a great friend, maybe someone that will be there for the rest of your life. -4eva Very wise blog. People need to learn to open themselves up to possibilities. You do that and now you have more options and a better chance of finding what you really want. Most people havent taken enough time to figure out who they are in order to truly know what they are looking for out of a relationship anyway. Meet people and get to know them with no expectations and you never know what you may get out of it. Maybe a great friend, maybe someone that will be there for the rest of your life. -4eva

]]> by: The Seeker http://diaryofaclosetfreak.blogsome.com/2005/11/09/kissing-frogs/#comment-52 Tue, 15 Nov 2005 13:53:11 +0000 http://diaryofaclosetfreak.blogsome.com/2005/11/09/kissing-frogs/#comment-52 I enjoy the way you write. Your analogy is humourous, but I think it's a good one. The best relationships I've had were with women that didn't quite hit a 'preconceived' standard. I enjoy the way you write. Your analogy is humourous, but I think it’s a good one. The best relationships I’ve had were with women that didn’t quite hit a ‘preconceived’ standard.

]]> by: E to the Dwige http://diaryofaclosetfreak.blogsome.com/2005/11/09/kissing-frogs/#comment-42 Fri, 11 Nov 2005 09:38:35 +0000 http://diaryofaclosetfreak.blogsome.com/2005/11/09/kissing-frogs/#comment-42 This has been some of the best advice I've read in a long time. Some people need to get rid of the check list and keep an open mind. This has been some of the best advice I’ve read in a long time. Some people need to get rid of the check list and keep an open mind.

]]> by: T in NYC http://diaryofaclosetfreak.blogsome.com/2005/11/09/kissing-frogs/#comment-40 Thu, 10 Nov 2005 02:20:18 +0000 http://diaryofaclosetfreak.blogsome.com/2005/11/09/kissing-frogs/#comment-40 You and I think a lot alike, CF. I keep telling this to my friend who only dates on occasion because so many guys don't fit her requirements. It's a numbers game, you gotta be in it to win it. Or as you so creatively said, you gotta kiss a lot of toads. Thanks for the link, baby. I appreciate it. You and I think a lot alike, CF. I keep telling this to my friend who only dates on occasion because so many guys don’t fit her requirements. It’s a numbers game, you gotta be in it to win it. Or as you so creatively said, you gotta kiss a lot of toads.

Thanks for the link, baby. I appreciate it.

]]> by: Anthony http://diaryofaclosetfreak.blogsome.com/2005/11/09/kissing-frogs/#comment-39 Wed, 09 Nov 2005 21:40:27 +0000 http://diaryofaclosetfreak.blogsome.com/2005/11/09/kissing-frogs/#comment-39 I like your style and your wisdom definitely shines through... I'm becoming a regular visitor to your blogsite and enjoying every moment of it... WarmBlessings, Anthony * I like your style and your wisdom definitely shines through… I’m becoming a regular visitor
to your blogsite and enjoying every moment of it…
WarmBlessings,
Anthony *

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