Sex on the 1st Date
I wonder what men and women these days think about having sex on the first date? I’m in a relationship now, but just in case I do decide to make a move, I need to be up on current dating etiquette. Now as far as puckering up goes, I have always been a girl who kissed on the first date because that is a fail-proof chemistry test. And to be perfectly honest, I don’t care how smart, fine and paid a nigga is, if he can’t kiss right, going out again is just wasting each other’s time. I can’t take slobber, bad breathe or teeth bumping into mine, but I love when a guy has soft full lips and can make my heart beat faster while we mesh our tongues . If his tongue in my mouth alone, can get the juices flowing to the my kitty, then I’ve always known that we were in business, at least on the attraction tip. But the more mature and kinky I get, the more I am beginning to believe that I need more information upfront.
I’ve picked up a few new interests and now I am considering tinkering with my first date chemistry experiment and taking it alittle farther. I guess that would actually be taking it ‘all the way’. I’m no longer sure if just kissing will tell me what I need to know. The policy may need to change from always kissing on the first date to getting an actual taste of the luving on the opening night. That way I can make a fully informed decision about the pleasure potential. Of course, I am not saying I don’t care about other issues such as his education, career, and personality- I am just addressing the issue of sexual satisfaction at the moment. That stuff comes next.
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