Faking Orgasms
Would you believe that 70% of women fake orgasms? Back in the days when I used to fake my orgasms, I always knew I couldn’t be the only woman out there doing it, but I can’t believe the faking numbers are that high. And 77% of women say their men can’t even tell the difference. So that means we climax perpetrators are damn near professional actresses!
As a reformed orgasm faker, I still think I had decent reasons for pretending. Mainly, I did it for two reasons. First to make my lover feel good and protect his ego and secondly, to take pressure off of me to cum if I just wasn’t feeling it for some reason. I mostly faked orgasms during regular fucking because it takes more work, foreplay and concentration to cum from penetration, and its just not going to happen every single time. But I have also been known to fake an orgasm when getting my kitty licked- either because the nigga didn’t know what he was doing and the real thing was not about to happen no matter what, or because I felt like the guy was getting tired of tonguing the family jewels and there is nothing worse than having someone going down on you without fervor. Nonetheless, I am through pretending where my passion is concerned, and here’s why.
There is nothing better in the whole wide world than a big, beautiful earth-shattering, toe-curling climax from oral, or a gripping, pulsing breath-taking rolling wave of release and floating from a g-spot orgasm. Nowadays I am greedy as hell for that shit and I don’t want to settle for less. And the bottom line is if we fake it ladies, we are settling for less. Plus if we let the guys get away doing shit wrong, how will they ever learn to do the shit right? By right I mean providing me with whatever stimulation I need to get off. It might be mental (I love a nigga to control shit in the bedroom), it might be verbal (talking dirty to me or talking down to me), or it might be handling my body parts in certain ways…”Right” is going to be different for everyone, but generally men want to please their partners in bed too.
Of course there’s the whole issue that desire to please does not mean the man has the necessary skill to please, but I think most men can improve their skills just as long as they are observant, good listeners, willing to make adjustments, and patient. I would definitely say patience is the number one thing a man needs to employ. Please slow the fuck down guys if you want her to achieve the real thing instead of putting on an act for you! Even if you need to set a damn foreplay clock, do it. Give the woman at LEAST 25- 40 minutes of foreplay before you stick the dick up in the coochie, plus if you want her to be able to cum on your dick you need a reasonable amount of dick control, enough so that you can hold back and just stroke it for a minimum of 15-20 minutes or more. What it takes to make a woman cum from oral sex is a little more involved so I’ll address that on a different day.
The point is they want us to cum and we want to cum for them, so really there’s no room for faking. The time we spend acting can better be used for fine-tuning and seeking the real deal explosion. Damn I sound like a public service announcement!
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